How to get MY ex back (VIDEO)

The Magic of Making Up

Are you in a broken relationship and asking the question ‘How do I get my back?’

When you break up with someone you really love, you are bound to go through painful emotions.  You will naturally feel sad, depressed and hurt, and most importantly, you miss them.  “How do I get my ex back?” then becomes the puzzle you want to solve.

There are many websites, books, blogs, forums that have been designed to answer the question, how do I get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a breakup.  Common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship. Remember you have to do it in style and with class so that you don’t lose your esteem before him.

Basically, if you want to get your ex back then follow this simple advice.  By doing this, you’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone you love. 

Don’t play games:  Unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because they think it will give them a sense of power.  If you can make your ex think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and it can feel great.  But it won’t last long.

You’ll soon realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good outlook. Anything good that might come from it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.

Some people play games the usual game of pretending to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. They think it will make their ex jealous.  While it doesn’t work often, other times it seals the breakup because it backfires. You wouldn’t want to destroy your chances.

Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you back.  Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway.  So it should be time for them to move on too. You will never know the way this trick will swing until it’s late anyways.

Try not to be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally should.  Even if you were hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘How to get your ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person.  If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back in the first place, you’d be glad it was over.

How have you been acting?  If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or even talking to you?  Would you dread each time?  Do you shout and nag? Avoid raising all kinds of argument. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can really miss.

Whether you ask “How to get my girlfriend back?” or “How to get my Boyfriend back?” The answer is be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what brought you guys together in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will definitely miss them.  Then you’ll have a good chance of being getting back with your ex.

These are just the beginning steps in getting ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. These aren't my original ideas however. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back at the time.

T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic OfMaking Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now its like there has never been a breakup.