Jumat, 30 September 2011
Crystal Harris Auctioning Off Hugh Hefner's $90,000 Engagement Ring: would you buy?
After calling off her wedding to 85-year-old Hugh Hefner in June, Crystal Harris held onto her estimated $90,000 engagement ring.
But now that several months have passed, the 3.39 carat circular-cut diamond will be auctioned off at Christie's in New York City in October. The former Playboy model, 25, "couldn't bear to look at the ring anymore because it brought back bad memories," a source tells TMZ.
According to the listing, the ring is expected to fetch between $20,000 and $30,000.
How to get back together with your ex
Both Sacrifice and compromise are critical parts in the give and take that goes hand in hand with any relationship. If you want to get back your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend then you are going to need to keep these things in mind. Nothing is going to make mending a broken relationship simple, but the advice contained within this article can certainly make it a lot less difficult overall to give your ex a reason to want to come back to you.
So while you may be obsessing with the all important question, "how to get back your ex?", what you need to be focusing on is rectifying the causes of failure - what was the reason for the break up in the first instance? By asking yourself the question, you will be able to eliminate the tension and stress which brought the split on in the first place.
So, How can you get your ex back, you ask?
When a relationship fails, you need to know that something went wrong in the first instance. If your boyfriend or girlfriend; wife or husband left you, then it was likely for one of two reasons: Either the relationship was becoming stale because there was not enough of you in it, or the relationship was getting too claustrophobic because there was too much of you in it. Either way, one of these causes is going to lead to relationship suicide. If you are asking "How to get back your ex", then you need to start looking at which of these led to the break up so you can act accordingly.
Whatever the reason for the split is, it was probably either something that you did, or something that you didn't do. It may be harsh to look at things this way, but that is simply how it usually works. The person who was broken up with either did, or did not do something and the person doing the splitting simply felt driven away. So now what happens, and how can you manage to get your ex to come back? The first step is to change whatever it was that drove your partner away in the first place.
You need take time out and really take a hard look at your situation. What could have led to the breakup? Which of them were your fault, and which were not your fault?
Forget the ones that were out of your control, since they will continue to be out of your control, and focus on the things that you did do wrong, the ones that you can in fact change. If your biggest challenge is something that you were responsible for and that you could change, then there is a very good chance that you can still get back together with your ex. However, you must be certain you really are willing to make the necessary changes to appeal to him again.
Just knowing how to get back with your ex is not enough. It won't happen unless you are willing to take action. Its up to you to make it happen.
Rabu, 28 September 2011
Woman loses $2,000 to Facebook scam: 'I thought it was my sister'
Now, you can't even trust your sister on Facebook.
Edythe Schumacher logged onto the social networking site recently and a picture of her sister popped up immediately, inviting her into a Facebook chat. After a bit of small talk, Schumacher’s sister – Susan Palmer – egged her on to apply for a government grant, saying she’d just received one. For an up-front fee of $2,000, Schumacher was assured, she'd get access to up to $500,000.
Schumacher trusted her sister — and lost $2,000.
Apparently, Facebook impersonation scams have reached a new level of duplicity. Palmer's account had been hacked, Schumacher says, by an impersonator skilled enough to pretend to be her own flesh and blood. The fake Palmer eventually talked Schumacher into wiring $2,000 to an address in Massachusetts.
"Turns out I was not chatting at all with my sister," Schumacher told authorities, according to a report filed with the Ohio state attorney general’s office. "I would never have sent the money if I didn’t think it was my sister."
Facebook account hijacking has been around as long as Facebook itself. While it often amounts to little more than childish pranks, the theft of someone's identity on Facebook can lead to real harm. Imposters have successfully tricked victims into wiring money before — a common scam involves contacting friends and writing an email with dramatic claims of muggings, accompanied by desperate pleas to wire money. See this earlier report.
'More and more sophisticated'
But impersonating a sibling in a real-time online conversation represents a crime that's bold even for Internet scam artists.
"Scammers are getting more and more sophisticated as the technology ramps up, so people have to really be on guard," said Lisa Hackley, spokeswoman for Ohio Attorney General Mike DeWine.
Schumacher filed a report with Ohio authorities last month detailing the elaborate scam, which also invoked the name of a former high-ranking FBI official and a Massachusetts nonprofit devoted to helping troubled children.
'I feel stupid'
“I just feel so stupid,” said Schumacher, 58, who works as a teacher’s aide working with autistic kids. Her husband is retired, so the couple is basically living on a fixed income. “But this one blew my mind.”
The chat invitation arrived immediately when Schumacher logged on to her computer on Aug. 9. Palmer had sent an -mail blast, warning friends and family that her Facebook page had been hacked, but Schumacher didn’t have time to read her email before the online conversation began.
“I was so mad at myself when I finally did read the email,” she said.
After bragging about getting a grant herself, the fake Palmer urged Schumacher to contact Sgt. Chris Swecker for more details. Swecker said he was with the Federal Government Humanity & Empowerment Program.
"He informed me I need to Western Union $2,000 to acquire the grant,” Schumacher told authorities. And of course, she had to do it immediately.
Chris Swecker is the name of a prominent FBI agent who specialized in electronic crimes during the Internet's early years. He later went on to be chief security officer at Bank of America before retiring recently to do consulting work.
It's unclear whether the criminal intended to use Swecker's reputation to aid the scam, but it's common for computer crooks to use names plucked from online sources to fill in the blanks while composing a scam scenario.
Swecker told a reporter that he hadn’t heard that his name was used to dupe an innocent victim.
"There's an epidemic of this kind of thing happening on the Internet," said Swecker. "I speak about online crime all the time, so it's ironic my name is caught up in this."
The fake Swecker told Schumacher to wire the money to a woman named Patricia Casella in Springfield, Mass. The ruse was thorough. When he called her cell phone, and the caller ID read "Empowerment GOV54." Persuaded, she wired the money.
“He waited (on the phone) till the transaction was completed,” Schumacher said.
Even after the money arrived, the imposter contacted her again, looking for $800 more. But by then, she was wise to the scam.
“He did contact another one of my sister’s friends, too, but she didn’t fall for it,” she said.
Innocent bystander
The address where Schumacher wired the $2,000 is that of a nonprofit named The Children's Study Home, which says on its website that it caters to the psychological needs of children who have suffered abuse and neglect. The agency is an innocent bystander in this scam, and probably others.
Criminals who receive stolen funds via Western Union don’t have to visit the destination address. They merely show up at the nearest Western Union facility with some identification and walk out with the money.
Steve McCafferty, executive director of The Children's Study Home, said this isn't the first time criminals have used his agency's address as a destination for stolen money.
"We know this has happened before," he said. Criminals have, at least once before, picked up cash labeled with his agency's address at a Western Union in a nearby grocery store, he said. The agency has received suspicious packages, also. Springfield police have been notified but so far have been able to do little to stop the crime.
"We're just a nonprofit agency, we don't want to be a part of this ... and it’s unfortunate that people are falling for it," he said.
This newfangled Facebook impersonation scam is just an elaborate narrative designed to distract victims from a variation on an old-fashioned "advance-fee loan scam," said Hackley, of the Ohio Attorney General’s Office. Criminals tell victims they can qualify for a loan by paying a small up-front fee, but there is no loan, she said.
The new Facebook scam is also reminiscent of a traditional grandparent scam, she said, where a criminal calls a victim pretending to be a grandchild and makes a desperate plea for bail money or emergency cash.
"Don't tell my parents" is often a part of that storyline, Hackley said. Elderly parents can often be tricked into sending money, she said, particularly now that many of them list their grandchildren on their public Facebook page.
"The criminals can look at their pages and use the correct names. They are easy to find online,” Hackley said. Facebook pages and pictures can also help criminals flesh out their narratives – “Grandma, we had fun at your 80th birthday party, didn’t we?”
'Vulnerable niche'
That’s why it’s a good idea for children and grandchildren to aid older Facebook users with privacy settings. There’s no need to make family member names available to strangers.
Swecker said he's very concerned about the growing numbers of older Americans who have begun to use social networking tools but have yet to develop the necessary skepticism for the online world.
"They are a vulnerable niche, the age group that didn't grow up with the Internet," he said. "Sometimes, the older generation has no idea how to protect themselves. For them, (using Facebook) is like giving the keys of a Ferrari to a 14-year-old."
Schumacher recommended that Facebook users drop a personal question or two into every chat, just to help positively identify chat participants.
She’s currently working overtime at school, trying to replace the lost funds.
“When you are counting every penny, it hurts. … I can't believe I did that. I’m not a risky person with money,” she said. “But I learned my lesson with Facebook.”
[Msnbc]
How to get back with an ex
Did you just experience a breakup? Maybe this has left you devastated and you are saddened by the fact. Well,this might not be a time for sad love poems or breakup songs? Have you ever thought of the prospects of getting your ex running back to your feet like he/she was being chased? Are you wondering how to go get an ex back?
Almost nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. But if you are over playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are options for you. Everyone deals with breakup, but it doesn't mean that you cannot get back together with your ex?
The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason for the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an exback if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.
The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but you should try not to make this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is definitely not a good way to go about it. You know that act of flashing new people to your ex's face to make him/her jealous. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to
see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to really to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.
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